Ignore that this is a blatant attempt to sell a book, and that the speaker isn’t sure if she’s a chatbot or not. This person really has a grasp on AI and she’s compiled several suggestions on how to program intimacy. I like the part about “silence” since my bots seem to produce so much of it.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kAYLN-mDAUg
I think she deserves an award of some kind. What would you suggest?